A four-week self-test: My adventure with the mobile intimate shower from BIDETLITY

Just as diverse as my travels by tent, car, or camper are the challenges of finding hygienic toilet facilities. They're sometimes few and far between, and they don't always have toilet paper or running water.

My first encounter with a bidet was during a trip to Italy, where bidets are standard equipment in every bathroom. I thought to myself that a mobile version would be the ideal gadget for life on the road – independent of running water or toilet paper, and without having to compromise on hygiene.

That's how I came across Bidetlity – the mobile intimate shower I can take anywhere. It also folds up so it can be stored as flat and compactly as possible, which is a big plus when space is tight while traveling.

And it promises even more: according to the manufacturer, the water jet cleans without rubbing – which is supposed to be especially pleasant for sensitive skin, for example during your period or after giving birth.

To put all of this to the test, I started a four-week self-test, which I'm sharing in this post.

Mobile Butt Shower: The First Few Days

Despite my enthusiasm, the first few uses were a real adjustment. Away from the familiar routine with toilet paper, and toward cleaning with water. It started with a few small hurdles: How do I position the butt shower correctly? How do I avoid splashes outside the toilet?

While doing my research, I learned that some people position the intimate shower in front, between their legs, to clean themselves, while others position it behind the body at the butt. The reasons for this vary, from personal preference to body shape. In the end, it makes no difference to the cleaning – you just need to keep an eye on the water jet to make sure the bathroom stays dry.

With a little practice and patience, I eventually got a feel for which angle works well. My intimate area felt fresher and cleaner. That was new – as if I'd taken a quick shower in between.

At first I was a bit skeptical about the water jet, since the built-in bidets in Italy had strong pressure and I wasn't sure whether I'd be able to generate enough pressure with the mobile intimate shower to remove every trace. The bottle is quite soft, which makes it easy to regulate the pressure with your own hand. If your skin is sensitive, a little pressure is enough. If you have wounds, for example after surgery or childbirth, ask beforehand what's right for you.

For number two, I applied a lot of pressure and sometimes refilled the bottle to make sure I was really completely clean. If you don't have a sink next to the toilet, you should definitely make sure the intimate shower is filled beforehand, or that a small pitcher is ready for refilling in case you need more water during your toilet trip.

That still leaves drying off, because after every shower session with Bidetlity, the intimate area is wet. At first I used toilet paper for that. But since it isn't always available when traveling, and because I don't want to use toilet paper out in nature, I switched to a small towel. I use the towel only for this purpose and change it often. That way I also cut down on toilet paper consumption.

More Discoveries

After 2 weeks, I noticed more benefits: especially during my period or on hot days, I appreciate the refreshing effect of the intimate shower. On cold days or in winter, on the other hand, you can use lukewarm water. This is also recommended by the manufacturer.

I also asked myself whether I could share the intimate shower with another person, since I'm often traveling with friends or my partner.

At first, the idea of using the same intimate shower made me uncomfortable. For me, the thought was a bit like using the same toothbrush. The shower head doesn't have to touch your skin. And if you'd still rather not share, just use your own nozzle.

It's also possible to buy an additional pack of extra shower heads, just to be on the safe side.

My Test Verdict: Bidetlity Experiences After 4 Weeks

What matters is having something to dry off with, because otherwise it's a wet affair. You should also know your own needs: do you need warm water, or can you manage without? With a bit of practice and preparation, Bidetlity is a comfortable addition to your bathroom hygiene.